People & Pronouns: Language That Sees Us

A dynamic guide for individuals, small groups, and congregations

Language shapes belonging.

People & Pronouns: Language That Sees Us is a theologically grounded, practical resource designed to help churches move from uncertainty to faithful, embodied practice around gender-inclusive language.

Rooted in scripture and Wesleyan theology, this guide explores why pronouns matter in Christian community, how to use them with clarity and care, and how church leaders can model practices that reflect God’s justice, hospitality, and expansive love.

More than a grammar lesson, this resource invites congregations into deeper discipleship — where honoring names and pronouns becomes an act of spiritual integrity and communal transformation.

Ideal for:
• Church leaders and ministry teams
• Small groups and Sunday school classes
• Justice teams and discernment groups
• Individuals seeking deeper theological grounding

Format: 30-page downloadable PDF
Includes reflection questions, leadership guidance, real-life scenarios, and actionable next steps.

Written by LGBTQ+ youth ministers and church leaders and awesome youth advisors, this Toolkit covers major topics a young person might encounter while learning about their sexual and/or gender identity. This is a great resource for any LGBTQ+ teen but especially for those who are new on their journey.

Parents Reconciling Network, an extension ministry of RMN, hosts monthly Virtual Porch sessions for support, learning, and exploring with other parents of LGBTQ+ people. These one-hour sessions include interviews, presentations, and conversations on a variety of topics.

Are you LGBTQ+? Not sure? Whether you’re queer or questioning, understanding sexuality and gender identity can be confusing. God loves you exactly as you are. No matter your identity or where in your journey of self-discovery you find yourself, you got this.

What does nonbinary really mean? What is gender nonconforming? And isn’t they a plural pronoun? In this charming and disarming guide, a real-life they-using genderqueer writer unpacks all your burning questions in a fun, visual way. No soapboxes or divisive comment-section wars here!

Transfigured offers a 40-day exploration of scripture through the lens of a God who is the designer of gender in all it’s magnificent variety.

Talking with your child about gender identity can seem overwhelming–but with the right guidance, you can have healthy conversations and create an affirming environment for them as they grow. Whether your child is cisgender, gender expansive, transgender, or still unsure, this guide provides practical advice and strategies to help you embrace them for who they are and support them as they approach puberty.

The book addresses three points of importance to young people looking to be part of a church community, and a call: 1. The identity and nature of God 2. The role of Scripture in discerning God’s call 3. The author’s own experience of God, church, and identity In the final chapter, “We Are the Church,” Warren focuses on practical and positive steps for joining voices, being heard, building bridges, and working together for young people to reclaim Church in their lives.

In this inspirational love letter to activists, seekers, new believers, and the spiritual but not religious, pastor-activist Tyler Sit shares how a spiritual community with Jesus at the center supports and sustains our social justice work together. Sit outlines nine practices of Christian community to transform the world and live a meaningful life: worship; centering marginalized voices; spiritual practices; life together groups; sabbath; leadership development; generosity; planting; and putting it all together.