People & Pronouns: Language That Sees Us

A dynamic guide for individuals, small groups, and congregations

Language shapes belonging.

People & Pronouns: Language That Sees Us is a theologically grounded, practical resource designed to help churches move from uncertainty to faithful, embodied practice around gender-inclusive language.

Rooted in scripture and Wesleyan theology, this guide explores why pronouns matter in Christian community, how to use them with clarity and care, and how church leaders can model practices that reflect God’s justice, hospitality, and expansive love.

More than a grammar lesson, this resource invites congregations into deeper discipleship — where honoring names and pronouns becomes an act of spiritual integrity and communal transformation.

Ideal for:
• Church leaders and ministry teams
• Small groups and Sunday school classes
• Justice teams and discernment groups
• Individuals seeking deeper theological grounding

Format: 30-page downloadable PDF
Includes reflection questions, leadership guidance, real-life scenarios, and actionable next steps.

Sameness or solidarity? Can we not “love alike,” as we were encouraged to do by John Wesley?

Love Alike is a three-part small group resource designed for communities seeking deeper conversations around identity, justice, and inclusion through the lens of faith. Grounded in Wesleyan theology and shaped by real-life stories, each session invites participants into meaningful reflection on how we live out God’s call to love—not in sameness, but in solidarity.

What’s included:

  • Part One: Foundations of Love
    • Explore what it means to “love alike” through scripture, theology, and the Wesleyan emphasis on grace, belonging, and transformation.
  • Part Two: Loving in Difference
    • Engage in honest conversations about identity, privilege, and making space for others. Includes stories and prompts to spark courageous dialogue.
  • Part Three: Becoming Beloved Community
    • Reflect on how your community can move from conversation to commitment. Encourages shared imagination, storytelling, and action.

Each session includes:

  • Opening prayers or grounding practices
  • Scripture-based teaching and reflection
  • Guided discussion questions
  • Invitations to deeper listening and spiritual growth

Perfect for:

  • Justice teams and Reconciling congregations
  • Church small groups and Sunday school classes
  • Faith communities beginning or deepening their inclusion journey

Format: Three downloadable PDFs (Parts 1–3) | Each part contains 4 lessons

Best For: Groups of 4–12 people | No prior theological training needed

“Transgender people have unique gifts for ministry. Distinctive experiences of deep introspection equip gender-diverse people to serve as caregivers. Social position aligns transgender people on the margins from which scripture is written. Gender transition embodies transformation that is the aim of religious practices. This book explores opportunities to preach, lead, provide care, work for justice, and have a social media presence as a transgender person. This book has lessons that apply to any person seeking to operate from their authentic self and unique gifts.”

You can learn more & get Dr. Joelle Henneman’s book here.
Find her on Substack and TikTok @transpreacher.

About the Author

Dr. Joelle Henneman (she/her/hers) serves as the Senior Pastor of the United Methodist Church for All People. Her passion for ministry comes in widening the circle of God’s love to include all people. After a 20 year career in the Air Force, Joelle attended Brite Divinity School and served as a pastor in the Central Texas Conference. After graduation, she served as associate pastor of Central United Methodist Church in Albuquerque, New Mexico and founded Community of Hope–an outdoor worshiping community of housed and homeless people. Joelle moved to Columbus in 2015 in order to live in to a second calling of ministry with the poor. Initially, she served as Director of the Healthy Eating and Living program at Community Development for All People; and, has served on the pastoral staff since 2018. The United Methodist Church for All People grew out of the message of unconditional love and is an intentionally cross-class and multi-racial church. The church affirms that people of all ages, all races, all classes, all genders, all sexual orientations, and all abilities are loved by God just they way they are and God is not finished with any of us yet,

Justice Champion

Dr. Joelle serve as a leader of Faith in Public Life’s Interfaith Justice Table’s, the Ohio Progressive Faith Coalition, board member of the Charitable Pharmacy of Central Ohio, active leader in LoveBoldly, TransOhio, Trans Allies of Ohio, the Black Queer Intersectional Collective and is the co-chair of the West Ohio Conference of the United Methodist Church’s Just Mission team.

Engaging Writer

Dr. Joelle is a published author who has written on a wide range of subjects from gender issues to military history to distance running. She served as an Air Force historian who received recognition eight times with the Excellence in History Programs Award and multiple Historical Publication Awards. As the United Methodist Student of the Year at Brite Divinity School she published two chapters in the book, “InstitutionalChange in Theological Education: A History of Brite Divinity School.” She has written hundreds of newspaper articles and is the author of this blog as well as Looked with Compassion and Perseverance Runner. She recently published the book, “TRANSitions-Queering Faith Leadership” and received the Marcella Althaus-Reid from Pacific School of Religion.

Dynamic Speaker

An in-demand speaker, Dr. Joelle has engaged thousands of people with hundreds of sermons, as a historian she spoke around the world from the Duxford Aviation Museum in England to an appearance on the History Channel’s Modern Marvels. As a social justice warrior, she speaks at rallies and campaigns on a wide range of issues including homelessness, race, immigration, and LGBTQ+ issues.

Lent is a season often likened to the wilderness. But what happens when the wilderness feels all too real? In a world marked by struggle and injustice, this season invites us to wrestle with the deeper commitments of faith – the ambitions of the spirit we signed up for on this walk with Jesus.

Through this devotional, you will explore what it means to be a people of justice, mercy, and love in the face of discomfort and uncertainty. In the wilderness, transformation is possible, both in us and in the world we are called to help shape.

Though we cannot think alike, may we not love alike? May we not be of one heart, though we are not of one opinion?

John Wesley’s exhortation seems harder than ever to follow today.

The results of the 2024 U.S. presidential election indicate that Americans are divided almost equally. But as people of faith, United Methodists have a responsibility to lead in ways that foster healthy interaction and build communities where all God’s people can thrive.

This 3-part guided discussion series is a small-group practice in having tough conversations about faith and politics.

Through this series, you won’t cease to disagree, but you’ll learn together how to navigate disagreement with grace, charting a path toward healing in our divided society.

This study resource is designed to help your United Methodist church or community become more trans-inclusive. Whether or not your group is Reconciling, this resource will equip you to better live into a future of greater love and affirmation.

It will cover some basic truths about transgender people. These sessions will ask you to engage in reflection and discussion guided by biblical scriptures, and to be better equipped to support transgender folks in your community.


What is it?

The reflection guide was designed to help communities and congregations better understand and respond to the decisions of the 2024 General Conference of The United Methodist Church.

What’s inside?

The Next Faithful Steps includes guides for four holistic, discussion-based sessions. Each lesson guide includes insightful summaries of General Conference work and results, as well as meaningful discussion prompts, prayer, scripture, reflection, discussion questions, and suggestions for continued engagement.

How do I get it?

For your whole small group or church, The Nexts Faithful Steps is $20 and you can get it here. Your purchase helps Reconciling Ministries Network to keep equipping our denomination, from individuals to institutions, to keep moving forward toward justice and affirmation for all of God’s children.

If your community is interested in this product but cost is a barrier, please reach out to us at admin (at) rmnetwork.org.

Thank you!

Written by LGBTQ+ youth ministers and church leaders and awesome youth advisors, this Toolkit covers major topics a young person might encounter while learning about their sexual and/or gender identity. This is a great resource for any LGBTQ+ teen but especially for those who are new on their journey.